FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

General Questions

A death doula or death midwife is a person who assists in the dying process, like that of a birth doula. Death is one of the most denied, ignored, and feared life events. As a death doula, I help families understand the dying process and help them create a safe space for open and honest conversation and provide the dying an opportunity to create a legacy.

Not really. Hospice and death doulas work in tandem with each other. In many states hospice organizations are including a death doula as part of their team. The person dying and the family receive the best care when both services are provided. The main goal for hospice is to provide care, comfort, and pain relief to the dying. The death doula nurtures the mental, emotional, and spiritual process of dying.

Kubler Ross conducted a study, with those who were dying, how they processed the concept of their pending death. From that study, Kubler Ross created the stages of grief. This study and subsequent information gained from the study specifically and only refer to the grief of those who are dying. NOT THE LIVING.

Yes, well meaning family members and friends will say unhelpful things. It is not their fault, they like many others really don’t know what to say. Grief is a process and a messy one at that. Grief is the natural and normal reaction to loss. If you feel stuck or that you don’t know how to move on, then The Grief Recovery Method may be for you.

A Celebrant is an individual who is trained to lead a funeral or wedding service. Many families do not have a religious home or affiliation, however, may be spiritual. The Celebrant is trained how to prepare and lead a service, whether a going home celebration, a “party,” or a wedding. If you are looking for a service that is heartfelt, meaningful, and personalized, then you may want to consider our Celebrant services.

Yes, I host training sessions that help staff members understand the value of family traditions, culture, and backgrounds. Our community is becoming more diverse and often we overlook unique opportunities where we can make a meaningful difference, especially throughout the end-of-life process.

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